We live in phases. In each phase of our lives, we acquire some things, we lose some things. Those things just don't come back, they are just gone, and there are no reasons. And they leave us with many questions of why and how and what-ifs, but it doesn't change the fact that it's gone. There will be no rewinds, no replays, only regrets or not.

And that brings me to the point, we all experience phases of our lives at every point of time, from primary school friends, to some instruments, to some sports, to computers to another group of friends, into our rebellious stage, into the 'adult' world, entering the society, etc. And at each phase, we always look back and think to ourselves, "Oh how silly I was, I should have done this and that and everything I never got around to do." 

But you see, the thing is, we all make decisions based on our level of information, maturity and priorities at the given point of time. So whatever choices we made at any phase of our lives, be proud of it. Because that is you, not he, she or anyone else. It's you. Those are the choices and decisions that we made that defines the experiences we take away from each phase, and those are the experiences that defines who we become when we grow out of each phase, that shapes how we perceive and react to events around us. Each of these 'pasts' makes us who we are today. 

So, dance with your memories, for without them you will not be. 

I wish you eternal bliss.
我祝你从此快乐。