you feel like an absolute failure because look how hard you’ve been trying.
but at the end of the day, we are the only ones who have to live with ourselves and our choices in relationships.
In all honesty, we are only kidding ourselves when we say that we are “giving up on love.” Even if we could cut out every connection who cares for us, we would still be capable of feeling empathy, and desire, and compassion. To give up on love would be to give up on the sun, to give up on air, to give up on everything good about day-to-day life. You might delete your dating site account, you might say no to someone who asks you out on a Friday night, but you will still know what it looks like when someone wonderful comes into your life. Opportunities will come along and you will be only too happy to receive them, and that doesn't make you needy or desperate. It makes you human, and capable of love, and very much worthy of having it in your life.
I've tried my best, put in my all I wouldn't say there is much more than I could have done. Maybe it's just time to move on; Life is just a game, so don't get too serious along the way.
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